tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1572585954207883835.post9099772819709118443..comments2016-01-12T10:31:35.816-07:00Comments on Family Moments Together: How do you miss someone you never truly knew?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1572585954207883835.post-11867970346160282892013-02-26T15:53:35.767-07:002013-02-26T15:53:35.767-07:00Lynette, my heart aches for you right now. I don&...Lynette, my heart aches for you right now. I don't know what to say or what to offer except my time. We would love to have your family visit us? Or we could come down and visit for a playdate with Turner? Or maybe take you and Torrey out for a grown up date night? It is understandable that you miss her, and also that you are mourning all the "could have beens" and all the broken dreams. The only thing that has helped me through loss has been focusing on other dreams. I am still sad that Adam and I can't have another child and I still have baby mania moments. I think it is partly biological to want to have a baby in your arms and that is hard when it is added to the emotional trauma that you already have to work with. I talk to women that have children and don't want more, but still long for a baby in their arms. I had my friend Carrie here this weekend and we definitely had some tears over the loss of her little girl. Like you, she doesn't just mourn the loss of what was, but the loss of what could have been. Hugs. :(Tara Walkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05528335168211272980noreply@blogger.com